how to choosing a good partner ?

when it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Miss. Right!

If you ask most couples who are engaged why they’re getting married, they’ll say: “We’re in love”; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound “not politically correct”, there’s a profound truth here.

Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you’re serious about finding and keeping a life partner.

Question – 1: Do we share a common life purpose? Why is this so important? 

Two things can happen in a marriage:

1.    You can grow together, or

2.    You can grow apart…

50% of the people out there are growing apart

Question – 2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?

Question – 3: Is he/she a mensch?

There are essentially two types of people in the world 

1.    People who are dedicated to personal growth and
2.    People who are dedicated to seeking comfort.

Question – 4: How does he/she treat other people?

Question – 5: Is there anything I’m hoping to change about this person after we’re married?

WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS -
1.    Trust
2.    Communication
3.    Intimacy
4.    A Sense of Humor
5.    Sharing Tasks
6.    Some get away time without Business or Children.
7.    Daily Exchanges (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes, etc.)
8.    Sharing Common Goals & Interests.
9.    Giving each other space to grow without feeling Insecure.
10. Giving each other a sense of Belonging & Assurances of Commitment.

that's all from me ,thank you. btw sorry if my english is broken :)